![\"\"](\"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Onaanvaardbaar-Geweld-vernietigen-groeien-brandstof-onmacht-druk-ondermijnen-vermogen-hoofd-aandacht-positief-krul-beeld-AdLJ-300x300.png\")
<\/p>\n<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
<\/strong><\/h1>\n
Haat en vernielzucht kan geen oplossing zijn in een goede wereld.<\/p>\n
Het is onmacht dat zegeviert.<\/p>\n
Alles waar ik jarenlang aan had gewerkt werd van de een op de andere dag weggeloodsd.<\/p>\n
Er was in mijn situatie geen sprake van haat maar wel van dwang.<\/p>\n
Mijn leidinggevende was onder druk gezet.<\/p>\n
Zette vervolgens mij onder druk.<\/p>\n
En ik\u2026<\/p>\n
Begreep het en zette mezelf onder druk.<\/p>\n
Ondermijning eerste orde.<\/p>\n
Tot de bom ploft.<\/p>\n
Er zijn grenzen in het vermogen van de natuur dus ook de mens.<\/p>\n
Groeien kost tijd en aandacht. Laat het positief zijn voor geluk.<\/p>\n
\n
Welkom bij AdLJ om tot rust te komen.
\nAls ervaringsdeskundige en creatief denker en doener, ACT en NLP practitioner help ik je graag bij omdenken.<\/p>\n
Meer info zie bij Cre\u00eber Cre\u00eber Caf\u00e9<\/a>\u00a0of Contact<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n (on) aanvaardbaar Haat en vernielzucht kan geen oplossing zijn in een goede wereld. Het is onmacht dat zegeviert. Alles waar ik jarenlang aan had gewerkt werd van de een op de andere dag weggeloodsd. Er was in mijn situatie geen sprake van haat maar wel van dwang. Mijn leidinggevende was onder druk gezet. Zette […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[95,28,29,41,78,87,30,33,70,89,32,109,51,88,49,50,27,108,63,45,43],"class_list":["post-1964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nieuws","tag-act","tag-adamstra","tag-adlj","tag-anneke-van-der-weg","tag-bewustwording","tag-breinbrood","tag-creeer","tag-creeren","tag-daadkracht","tag-dialoog","tag-filosoferen","tag-groeien","tag-inspiratie","tag-kritisch-denken","tag-krullen","tag-moed","tag-naardebasis","tag-nlp","tag-tegenkracht","tag-verbinden","tag-verwoorden"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1964"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1968,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1964\/revisions\/1968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Onaanvaardbaar-Geweld-vernietigen-groeien-brandstof-onmacht-druk-ondermijnen-vermogen-aandacht-positief-krul-tekst-AdLJ-300x300.png\")
<\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Onaanvaardbaar-Geweld-vernietigen-groeien-brandstof-onmacht-druk-ondermijnen-vermogen-hoofd-aandacht-positief-krul-info-AdLJ-294x300.png\")
<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"