{"id":2117,"date":"2026-08-28T09:56:24","date_gmt":"2026-08-28T07:56:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/?p=2117"},"modified":"2026-08-28T09:58:01","modified_gmt":"2026-08-28T07:58:01","slug":"druk-een-punt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/druk-een-punt\/","title":{"rendered":"Druk een punt"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Doseren<\/span><\/h1>\n

Een hele kunst.<\/p>\n

Een ander vertellen hoe iets moet ook.<\/p>\n

Te veel<\/p>\n

druk<\/span><\/h1>\n

voelt niet prettig.<\/p>\n

De druk gaat van de ketel op vakantie.
\nAls het goed is…
\nUit ervaring weet ik dat dat niet voor iedereen geldt. Er zijn mensen die in de vakantie meer van zichzelf eisen dan op het werk.
\nGrenzen verleggen. Zaken organiseren die ze anders nooit op zouden pakken. Sportieve acties die veel van het lijf vragen.
\nDat vergt nogal wat. Veel geleerd en fijn weer rustig te kunnen gaan werken….
\nIk weet ook uit ervaring dat er kinderen zijn die niet op vakantie gaan. Ouders die geen geld hebben om het te betalen. Of juist wel en dan twee keer op vakantie ‘mogen’ koorddansen om het beide naar de zin te maken. Ik kan niet vertellen welk kind ik het meest benijd of juist niet maar geef hen graag de taal om te verwoorden wat hen bezig houdt. Waar ze het meest mee geholpen zijn.
\nNaast al die andere kinderen die ‘gewoon’ zin hebben hun positieve ervaringen te delen.
\nEen hele kunst iedereen aandacht te geven.
\nHet houdt mij bezig.<\/p>\n

Nog steeds.<\/p>\n

Het punt is dat ik niet in staat ben me neer te leggen bij onrecht.
\nGeweldloze communicatie is daarbij in mijn ogen een goed uitgangspunt. Geen druk van bovenaf. Niet je ergens van afmaken omdat je niet wilt of kunt.\u00a0 Samen zoeken naar opbouwende\u00a0 woorden, de juiste weg om vrij uit te werken met zicht op een betere toekomst.
\nKleine en grote kinderen zouden allemaal vredig moeten kunnen werken.<\/p>\n

Kan jij je hulpvraag verwoorden?
\nKan je vertellen wat je bezig houdt?<\/p>\n

Is er aandacht voor?<\/p>\n

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Doseren Een hele kunst. Een ander vertellen hoe iets moet ook. Te veel druk voelt niet prettig. De druk gaat van de ketel op vakantie. Als het goed is… Uit ervaring weet ik dat dat niet voor iedereen geldt. Er zijn mensen die in de vakantie meer van zichzelf eisen dan op het werk. Grenzen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,1],"tags":[181,96,28,29,41,78,87,33,76,70,89,174,173,176,175,32,39,49,177,137,178,45,43,180,179,48,111],"class_list":["post-2117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-onderwijs","category-nieuws","tag-aandacht","tag-accepteren","tag-adamstra","tag-adlj","tag-anneke-van-der-weg","tag-bewustwording","tag-breinbrood","tag-creeren","tag-culturen","tag-daadkracht","tag-dialoog","tag-doceren","tag-doseren","tag-druk","tag-druk-een-punt","tag-filosoferen","tag-gedicht","tag-krullen","tag-punt","tag-tevreden","tag-vakantie","tag-verbinden","tag-verwoorden","tag-vredig","tag-vrij","tag-wegen","tag-woelwater"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2117"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2117\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2124,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2117\/revisions\/2124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adlj.nl\/jaen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}